Life events that bring about “sudden singleness”—divorce, separation, or loss—are among the most disruptive transitions anyone can face and often feel daunting, even destabilizing.
Research from UBS Global Wealth Management highlights the scope of the challenge: 74% of widowed and divorced individuals report being hit with negative financial surprises after losing a spouse or partner.1 Financial advisors have the opportunity to help clients not only recover, but also rebuild resilience for the future.
Financial planning for divorced clients
Managing financial aftershocks
Divorce is painful, and it comes with both immediate and lasting financial consequences. For advisors, the financial implications of a divorce for a client go far beyond portfolio reallocation.
Research highlights a sobering reality that both spouses are significantly affected in a divorce. A woman’s household income falls by an average of 41% in the year following divorce. Men's household income falls by 21% to 22%, on average, in the year following a divorce.2
Divorce isn’t just the division of assets — it’s the creation of two distinct financial lives. Each spouse becomes an individual client with unique needs, goals, and constraints. Decisions about the marital home, whether to sell or have one spouse buy out the other, are just one piece of a larger puzzle that also includes investments, retirement accounts, and liquidity. Rising interest rates, affordability, and potential tax implications like capital gains all complicate these choices. But this moment also presents an opportunity: by tailoring financial planning strategies for each party, advisors can help preserve financial well-being on both sides of the divide.
Divorce financial planning tactics
- Cash flow analysis and planning to stabilize day-to-day finances.
- Retirement plan reconstruction to account for divided assets and revised contributions.
- Guidance on insurance, estate documents, and tax implications tied to settlement terms.
Reevaluate current investment strategies with both client sets and use managed accounts to tailor portfolios and reduce the reactive nature of investments with automated rebalancing and tax awareness.
Ultimately, the advisor’s task is not just financial triage, but setting the foundation for renewed confidence and long-term growth.
Financial planning for widowed clients
Relearning their financial role
Widowhood presents its own distinct challenges. Many clients may not have been the primary financial decision-maker during their marriage or partnership. When suddenly responsible for the full scope of household finances, they can feel unprepared and overwhelmed.
Research shows that most surviving spouses encounter unexpected financial issues during this transition.3 At the same time, emotional stress can compound decision-making, making it important to balance immediate needs with careful planning for the future.
How to provide financial guidance after the death of a spouse
- Slow the pace of planning and address urgent needs first, while deferring complex decisions until clients are emotionally ready.
- Delivering education in digestible formats to build confidence step by step.
- Leveraging technology, such as client dashboards, personalized investment roadmaps, and scenario planning tools, to help clients visualize their financial reality and future options in clear, concrete terms.
- Reviewing Social Security options, including survivor benefits.
- Retitling joint accounts and updating estate plans to reflect the new reality.
Managed accounts can also play an important role during this transition. By providing professional oversight, automated rebalancing, and tax-aware investment management, they remove much of the day-to-day burden from clients who may feel overwhelmed. This structure allows clients to focus on immediate life changes while knowing their long-term financial strategy is being actively managed with discipline and consistency.
The goal isn’t merely asset preservation. It’s about helping clients regain a sense of control during a time when life feels unpredictable.
4 best practices for supporting suddenly single clients
Whether through divorce, widowhood, or another sudden life change, how advisors engage can matter as much as the financial strategies they recommend. Advisors who succeed with suddenly single clients often focus on empathy, pacing, and education.
Try these 4 best practices:
- Listen before leading. Clients in transition need to feel heard. Begin with empathy, not numbers.
- Break complexity into milestones. Presenting a 30-year retirement projection may overwhelm a client who is still adjusting to new monthly expenses.
- Lean on your tech stack. Personalized portfolios, tax-aware direct indexing, and digital dashboards enable advisors to tailor strategies, making the planning process more transparent and less intimidating.
- Frame education as empowerment. The most effective advisors don’t just give answers; they provide tools and knowledge that allow clients to rebuild confidence in their own decision-making.
Building loyalty through empathy and experience
For advisors, supporting suddenly single clients is not just an act of compassion. It is also a business opportunity. Clients who feel supported during life’s most challenging transitions often become the most loyal.4 Widows and divorced women in particular value advisors who combine technical knowledge with empathy and patience. These relationships can span decades, extending to children and future generations.
By helping clients stabilize, rebuild, and reimagine their financial futures, we can create trust that lasts a lifetime. Combining financial expertise with empathy allows advisors to become true partners, guiding clients not only through recovery but toward thriving in the chapters that follow.
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